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How to find acceptance
taktamp
Posted: Saturday, January 27, 2018 6:43 PM
Joined: 5/13/2017
Posts: 37


My DH left me in Sept but this terrible disease took him long before that.  He didn’t know who I was.  He kept asking me to take him home.  He wanted me to find his wife.  So cruel.  Did he know I was there at the end.  It hurts so bad.  I don’t know how to move forward.  I miss him and I’m overwhelmed with sorrow.   

 


jfkoc
Posted: Sunday, January 28, 2018 10:31 AM
Joined: 12/4/2011
Posts: 17291


The rawness will ease but grief seems to take its own sweet time. You have no choice but to live with it. 

It will change you forever as will what you have been through and now face. 


abc123
Posted: Tuesday, January 30, 2018 8:02 AM
Joined: 6/12/2016
Posts: 532


My husband passed away 4 years, 9 months ago. Sometimes when the house is quite I can hear him call out my name, softly and clear as a bell. It's very comforting.
His Daughter
Posted: Wednesday, January 31, 2018 10:58 AM
Joined: 6/25/2014
Posts: 2273


Time will help.  I don't think we ever get over losing someone we love.  But time does put a scar over the wound.   Grief takes it's own sweet time. And often, they are just baby steps.