Joined: 11/30/2011 Posts: 4463
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But I was just wondering if you feel anything good came from having
it?
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Joined: 12/15/2011 Posts: 18520
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As you know, I don't have Alzheimer's Disease, but I began having significant memory and cognitive problems in my late 30's. I had to retire. During this time I met my husband. I doubt very much that I would have met him while I was still working. Unfortunately, my memory loss contributed to marital issues, similar to what we read so much about on these pages. At the same time, I have become more patient and understanding of people around me with difficulties.
Iris
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Joined: 11/30/2011 Posts: 4463
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This is some of the good that came from it for me.
- I got the opportunity
to travel so much sooner then I ever thought I would and made so many memorable
memories for my wife and I that she talks about all the time. It real made
her happy.
- I have gotten
to meet the best minds in the world related to dementia
- I have been a
pioneer and will leave a lasting impression for what I have done for this
disease and others.
- I was given
the opportunity to come to the rescue of so many and help them just a little
on how to deal with this disease
- I created an
army of dementia advocates all over the world including Africa where I
have contributed to saving lives
- I have broken
so many records that I am even surprised that I was able to do all this.
- If it was not
for my dementia I would have never had that great boat and still cannot believe
it was ever mine.
- Now we are near
to building our dream home and don’t think this would ever have happened
and will leave my wife very happy if I should go. And of course she is
retire early to be with me.
- I am spending
more money than I would have because I am no longer in control of it
- I am more
patient to others in need or who struggle with mental issues.
- I was able to
do a bucket list and still be around - Ran out of things to do
- I accomplished
the most exciting thing in my life by spending two day in Geneva with all
of the ambassadors of the world at the first dementia conference at WHO. I
had my own seat and mic and tread like royalty like the others - Does not
get any better than that and not sure I can ever top that one
- I have stared
so many dementia programs all over the world that are now running on the own
- I have gotten
many world leaders to take action for the cause and to contribute millions
and millions of dollars.
- I fought
against many organizations and governments to change laws
- It made me appreciate
life and what I have
- Most thankful
that I met George Vradenburg from USAgainstAlzheimer’s and so other great
people who do so much for this cause with out any reason to get something
in return
There are probably a lot more but I think you get the point.
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Joined: 11/1/2020 Posts: 13
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I'm thankful for your perspective! And, you are a beautiful writer! Thank you for sharing your gifts on this board.
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