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Joined: 1/2/2013 Posts: 89
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Hi all! A little over a year ago I lost my daddy. Mama became my responsibility and I was happy to care for her. Mama had Alz. and Ovarian Cancer. The cancer took her last month. I miss her terribly. I miss daddy too but had just gotten used to his passing, but now that my mama is gone my heart aches. I even went to a medium. (Please don't judge me.) The reading was good and if she was a fake she was a damn good one. I just wish I could hold my mama. Has anyone else ever gone to a medium?
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Joined: 1/30/2013 Posts: 1980
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I've never been to a medium. I guess from your post, it's like a palm reader. But the subject of your post has scared the hell out of me. I lost my daddy in March of this year. I'm mama's primary CG now that he's not here. I'm so busy w/her that she keeps my mind pre-occupied. I miss my daddy terribly. I'm so AFRAID that when something happens to her, I won't know what to do w/myself.
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Joined: 1/2/2013 Posts: 89
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I don't mean to scare you but it is so very painful. My heart aches every day. Some days I do okay, but I never stop thinking about her and daddy. I want so badly to make them proud. I know over time it won't be as hard, but my mama and I were so close. I miss her touch, her smell, EVERTHING! Just make sure to spend as much time with your mama as you can. Take photos, video her, make special memories.
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Joined: 6/3/2013 Posts: 1
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My wonderful graciuos mother Velma has been gone over 21 years...I still miss her so much...But I would like to tell you it does get easier. Just so you know. My dad is still here and is in his last days with ALZ. He has lived with me for the last 7 years...it has been hard and it as been a great blessing. Anyday now I wait to find him gone from this world and my heart aches. With faith and God's promises I know I will be ok. Another Heartache to come.
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