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So unpredictable, just need to vent.
quote:Originally posted by shearbear:The other night we went out to eat. DH and I split a sandwich with fries. He poured ketchup from bottle and started to lick the cap. I was stunned, I couldn't believe he did that. I never seen him ever do that. The couple sitting at the next table moved. I told him never to do that again and he said, "don't we take the bottle home with us?". This was a restaurant that is upper scale. I wiped the cap as much as I could and I did not want to embarrass my husband.
quote:Originally posted by arm:shearbearIt is funny that I found this post. I was just coming to vent. Different from yours. Mine is that my husband broke his cell phone on purpose when I was not home. He always wants what he had at work, blackberry. Hasn't worked in 3 years. He trashed the one he had. That was a year ago. That is all I have heard for a year, blackberry. So when I am at preschool where I work half a day, he went to Radio Shack and upgraded his broke phone to one that is very complicated. He now has it in a loop pattern just like he did the blackberry when he trashed it. Of course it is the guys at Radio Shacks fault. If someone would just take his dirving priveledges away I would not have this problem. He is only suppose to drive with someone with him, but he takes off if I go anywhere. He is getting worse. He has been looking at motorcycles and has been talking about getting one since they limited his driving. Now I am afraid that he will go get one while I am gone. I don't know if he could fill out paperwork. But I am sure a salesman would help him. His family is no help. They say he is fine with them. That is a lie, you spend 10 minutes with him and you can see that he is not. We have been dealing with this for 7 years now. So you can kind of see what stage or place he may be in at 7 years. Medicine has slowed it some.I notice that there is a lot of post on people getting worse right now. I wonder if it is the season change, time change. Anyway, I am very tired. We go out to eat very rarely. It is to hard. Not because he embarrasses me, but because I am to tired.Oh and broke the riding lawn mower again, same thing he broke on it last year.