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I Need help
You have a warm caring heart but you can't be everything to everyone all the time.
Your daughter needs you number one. Period.
Just having more space in a house isn't going to create care giving time or provide stamina.
You've given up a lot of your life already. The word "Guilt" should never, ever cross your lips. Or the word "excuses."
Moving someone with dementia can be very upsetting to them, and she'll need 24.7 care if you got her to Florida.
How can you work, take care of your daughter and be a 24/7 caretaker to 2 adults that are declining?
Wages are less in PR than Florida so care for them should be less there.
I'd talk to your sisters about what more they can chip in to get more care in PR and see what govt assistance programs there maybe.