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GPS Tracking for Wandering
Have you watched the movie "What they had". I recommend watching it if you have not already. It may be difficult for your father to watch her all the time. The movie will show how it is.
The double bolt locks help, especially at night. But there is a risk.
Wandering can be really scary. My LO, who was a real indoor person, suddenly went into the parking lot of the AL and tried to get into the car with someone. She wanted to go to a mall that didn't exist anymore. Thankfully, the staff invited her back in to wait for me. She attempted this several times, when her doctor prescribed a SECURE Memory Care facility.
The device might be good to locate her if she wanders, but, it doesn't help prevent her from walking out into traffic, falling off bridge, getting into car with strangers, etc. Plus, as Ruth said above, she could discard the tracker. So, I'd focus on getting adequate 24/7 supervision, so that she can't just walk off. Is your dad prepared to do that? Could he catch her if she took off running? I'd check with an attorney and local laws about what is legal in securing someone inside the home with locks. There may be fire codes and other laws about it.
There probably ARE fire codes for double deadbolt locks but this is how I slept at all for the first two months in our new home. I used them only at night ... and twice while I made midnight or early morning runs to get her something. Before we moved, I had put a padlock on the backdoor and sufficiently stacked packed boxes in front of the front door. Not the best from a safety standpoint, but I got some sleep ... even on nights when she tried to get out. She was only successful once at that point.
I never left her unattended all day locked inside.
There are also some kind of safety devices you can attach to keep them from opening a door once they have unlocked it. I have looked into these but not purchased since she hasn't tried to leave ... even since new doors sans double deadbolts have been installed. (Probably jinxing myself here.) They say wandering is a phase. I hope that's true ... and that ours is over.
The geripsych doctor on her last admission nearly five months ago basically said she can't be left alone anymore. And I've not done this, except on the rarest of occasions. I was already doing this before that diagnosis directive. So, she's either with a caregiver at home, at daycare or with me.