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Pressure Sores, Recliner, and Refusal to get off butt
Alternating air mattresses or chair pads are intended as a SUPPLEMENT to keeping pressure off of the pressure wound. If he's not willing to stop the problem, these products won't help. How do I know this? The wound-specialist physician told this to my Dad (in very plain language). My Dad didn't take it seriously either.
caregiving daughter's look in the future is right on. Since he won't comply in the home and has bed sores he should be in a professional nursing situation. They can tunnel into the body.
https://is.gd/U74gY2 article on dementia and sores
With the recent falls, and the sores, he really needs to be seen ASAP - why not go to the ER and get outside help.
Your love and compassion is clear but bed sores are a major trigger for authorities.
It is an extreme case but the take away is: you can't punt. As you say- you can't control his body- get him where they can move him easier.
I thought about what you wrote, it reminded me of the distress another CG had when their PWD was tended to in a hospital. When you try to do something and Dad says NO or refuses or cries out it hurts- you stop? Most of us would. We love them .
In a nursing home they know he HAS to be repositioned for his own good and take the protests etc.The end result will hopefully be a good one- healed sores. Also, they have the staffing to manage the lifting etc.
His agreement can't matter- look where it got him- his brain can't process the message.