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At last at peace
i2i
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2019 9:56 AM
Joined: 8/12/2017
Posts: 225


My father passed away after living at least ten years with this awful illness.   I'm moving between fog and inertia, punctuated by restlessness.  Blessings to the wonderful people on this site.  It made all the difference in punching through all the dilemmas, disasters and transitions.
abc123
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2019 10:21 AM
Joined: 6/12/2016
Posts: 673


I’m very sorry to hear of your loss. Sending you love & peace. Please keep in touch with us. We are here when you need us.
Doityourselfer
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2019 11:14 AM
Joined: 9/5/2017
Posts: 407


I'm sorry for your loss.
TessC
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2019 11:22 AM
Joined: 4/1/2014
Posts: 4973


I send my condolences for the passing of your father. Yes, it is an awful disease and one your father did not have to do alone thanks to your support and love.  Take care of yourself and hope your future will be bright-you deserve that and so much more!
PaniniSandwich
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2019 11:50 AM
Joined: 7/1/2017
Posts: 115


I am very sorry for your loss.
i2i
Posted: Sunday, October 27, 2019 12:07 PM
Joined: 8/12/2017
Posts: 225


Thank you, abc, Doityourselfer, Tess, and Panini.  

And there were also many joys and good memories, I'm just not feeling them now.


Sayra
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2019 5:48 AM
Joined: 8/10/2016
Posts: 1765


(((i2i)))
harshedbuzz
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2019 6:15 AM
Joined: 3/6/2017
Posts: 1845


I am sorry for your loss.

HB
SunnyBeBe
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2019 11:04 AM
Joined: 10/9/2014
Posts: 786


I'm sorry for the loss of you dad.  I can't imagine what that is like. Please accept my condolences.  I appreciate you posting with the news.
Charrlygirl
Posted: Monday, October 28, 2019 11:46 AM
Joined: 10/21/2019
Posts: 7


I'm new here, but I am sorry for your loss.
DEMENTIASUPPORT
Posted: Wednesday, October 30, 2019 10:12 PM
Joined: 8/22/2019
Posts: 32


I know the feeling. I lost my mother Monday 10/28 after her battle with dementia and breast cancer. As much as I know it is a blessing that she is no longer in pain and reunited with my father after they had been married for 64 years, it is so final. The thought of never seeing her again is so sad. I'm sorry for your loss.

Sallie


i2i
Posted: Thursday, October 31, 2019 8:27 AM
Joined: 8/12/2017
Posts: 225


Thank you, Sayra, HB, Sunny, Charrlygirl and you, freshly grieving Sallie.  

I feel as though I should be further along with planning the memorial, responding to cards and messages etc., but putting one foot in front of the other feels monumental right now.  Sorry, end of whine.  Trying not to stay too glued to the computer.


LicketyGlitz
Posted: Thursday, October 31, 2019 1:46 PM
Joined: 2/3/2018
Posts: 541


Craps, i2i. I'm guessing the inertia that you're feeling is probably pretty normal. I've thought more then once that when Mom dies, I'm going to collapse for a month, shut off the phone, close the curtains, crawl into the fetal position and stay there until my brain has cried all the pent-up stress, sorrow, and "now what?" fears away.

I'm sending you and your family peace as you work through the grief. Another tough road, but there's a better path ahead.


zauberflote
Posted: Thursday, October 31, 2019 6:59 PM
Joined: 10/24/2018
Posts: 506


i2i I am so sorry! Hugs....
 
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