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Another Card to the Cemetery
Posted: Tuesday, December 17, 2013 6:46 PM
Joined: 8/7/2012
Posts: 218

The second Christmas since Mom died.  I sent another holiday card for my mother and father to the cemetery yesterday.  I address it to Mom and Dad w/the cemetery address.  I tell them how I'm doing. 


I don't know why it makes me feel better, but for some reason it does.


I wonder if anybody opens it up and reads it.  I wonder if other people do this or if I'm the only one that does this.  Maybe they have a whole wall full of cards in the cemetery office.


I wonder if I'm "losing it". 


I guess I'm isolating too much. 



dj okay
Posted: Wednesday, December 18, 2013 9:08 PM
Joined: 11/29/2011
Posts: 1840

If it makes you feel better, where's the harm in that?


You might want to read my topic "The second year - I didn't know".  I really thought this second holiday season would be easier than last year and have been blindsided by some intense feelings of sadness.  It may help you to know you are not alone and you are normal.

Posted: Thursday, December 19, 2013 5:25 PM
Joined: 8/7/2012
Posts: 218

Thank you.  



Posted: Thursday, December 26, 2013 12:15 PM
Joined: 12/5/2011
Posts: 795



What ever makes you feel better.  I am in my third Christmas without my Mom.


It is difficult.  I still count my blessings.  I still have family and friends I love very




I am sending you a cyber HUG !


Please, take care of yourself.


Peace and Hope,



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